In life we have a lot of roles, those things that define us as we interact with the world; Husband, Grandfather, handy person, bill payer, neighbor, driver, cook etc. etc.
Other than Husband, Father, Grandfather and the like, what roles do you fill that are exclusively masculine? What roles do you have that you could just as easily take care of as female? And are those self-imposed or imposed on you? I'm starting to think that we give too much power to gender in how we handle our lives and much of what we do has no need for gender.
I've recently started to chip away at the "Father" role by telling my adult kids that I'm transgender. I haven't done anything outward to challenge the image they have in their minds, but that door is open. They will have to be the ones who handle the Grandfather issue should I ever start spending more time as Sarah. Still trying to think through this, so any help on how gender is required in some of what we do is appreciated.