How could the SO go to therapy? If it's a DON'T ASK-- DON'T TELL ? How could you ask or tell them? Must be Mind work,, If they don't want to see you dressed or have anything to do with it I don't think they subject themselves to a therapist much less a Gender therapist,,,lol,,, There not the one with the problem, You would have to agree to be in a Do ask Do tell relationship,lol,,,,,,