I posted this as an answer in a different thread but thought it would make for an interesting topic. I think that when you do find a balance between your male and female sides as a crossdresser you become more whole as a person and that it breaks you free of the mold that you were cast in. It frees you so you don't have to conform to social norms or expectations of people even if there are consequences. For me I started getting urges to dress and act more feminine as a young teenager but suppressed the urges never really understanding why I felt that way and with nobody to talk to about it, just made it worse and all the more confusing so not giving into my urges and just ignoring them seemed easier. Being born a boy with a strong female side may not mean you ate your twin sister in the whom genetically everyone is a female as a fetus and stays that way for 6-8 weeks this is why we have nipples they are our only female attributes we inherit genetically until the Y chromosome starts to develop male characteristics. So its not ridiculous to think that maybe there are more female chromosomes left in some males than others. I have given quite alot of thought to this idea on my journey of self discovery that maybe I have more female chromosomes in me than the average male and that is what makes me so feminine but I'm not a scientist this may or may not explain it I'm just theorising. Being born with hormone imbalances or stronger characteristics of the opposite sex has been linked to transgender in the past but there is no real answer and that is what makes us crossdressers and members of the transgendered community beautiful little mysteries I don't really know where it comes from maybe we'll never really know, for me I have just come to except it as part of my identity and embrace it. I would love to hear from you girls to see your view on why you think your so in touch with your feminine sides?