I have admitted my cross dressing secret to my wife and now after several counselling sessions, she is starting to come to terms with my need to crossdress and I think our marriage is going to be stronger for it going forward.
This makes me so happy as I love her so much. Rrealising how damaging my secret was when out was surprising and so saddening - I'd been so wrapped up in trying to get the courage to get it out there, I hadn't realised how difficult it would be for her. I'm at an amazing crossroads in my life with a wife and family who can love and accept me for who I've always wanted to be, but been too afraid to admit. I am so lucky.
The challenge now is to actually start to do the thing that's really only been a dirty little secret and an occasional stolen moment over the years.
My question is to all of you that have gone through this difficult time. I feel like I'm through the worst but dressing is not easy to go through with at home, it still feels weird. I would love to chat with anyone who's a little further down the road and hear your advice on how to progress this and what to do next.
Just so you know where I'm coming from; I'm transgender but don't want to transition fully, I just want to pass as a female sometimes. So I have a lot to learn about hair, what to wear, make-up etc etc.
Any advice and kind words welcome!
Love,
Jamie XXX.