I began to type this as a response to a different thread currently open, but I did not want to hijack it so I decided to just start a new thread.
....since I do not posses an innate confidence and lack of fear of the general public walking the streets late at night, does that mean I am actually a woman?
...and further.... since my wife does not possess instincts to protect herself from a lifetime of being harassed and objectified, does that mean she is actually a man?
Really.... this is my annoyance at some who lump everyone from the same gender together and say things like "women ________" or "men ________." Especially the part about women developing instincts to keep themselves safe "from a lifetime of being harassed and objectified," and men not possessing these instincts. It is almost as if men are portrayed as being able to fearlessly walk the streets, go wherever they want, whenever they want, without fear. Let's just ignore that men are more often the victims of violent crime. And women are endlessly harassed no matter where they go or what they do and thus they live their public lives in endless fear of being attacked.
How about something more gender neutral as in..... some of us humans are more cautious than others because of our own life experiences or personal decisions, and not because of what gender we are.
If you are a man and think that you will never be attacked, that is just plain stupid. And if you are a woman and think that you will always be attacked, that is just as stupid.
There are no gender based universals.