My only sister, 68, has never liked males, never dated, was taught by aunts that men were evil, sex is evil, having babies is sinful. She won't even go to a male dentist of doctor. And she would never allow a man to see her at all undressed. Well, I forgot my coat at my family of origin's house two days ago, and went there yesterday, to dig some fishing worms, then, my brother shouted, that my coat was in the hallway. So, after a few minutes, i went in, and it was not there. So, i went into the kitchen where i had it last, and out of the bathroom comes my sister, and suddenly she was horrified, and because she cannot speak clearly, made some sounds, i could tell were alarm, horror. I had on sun glasses, and cannot see too well, anyway, and i did not notice she was partly dressed, at all. i said, that i can't find my coat, several times, then went back outside, and there it was.. My brother had put it on the old swing. I then left a bit pissed, that he did not tell me he put it there, and my sister was traumatized by me accidentally. My family is a fusion family, toxic and very bizarre. My sister is going downhill, drinks cola all day, and sugary things. She cannot speak clearly 95% of the time. She once saw me naked, when i had a broken leg, when i was 14, and i was carried to the bathroom, and she saw my male things. it traumatized her then. And, now, i feel awful, and emotionally upset, too, because i accidentally traumatized her, and I have absolutely no desire to dress now. Maybe much later, but not after this happened. How sick, that relatives teach a little girl, that all boys are bad, sex is dirty and evil, having kids is bad! And her entire life, she believes that! Now, after my father dies, she will likely have a nervous breakdown. I am not going to take care of her. She will have to find a female helper. My dressing is on hold right now.
