All's I can say is, I've been very lucky! Worst case scenario is living in Texas
Worst case would be: living in Texas and a small town, being caught by someone I know. It would spread like wildfire.
Probably worst thing ever happened is: I had some guy start following me as I was driving. I wasn't far from the police station so I headed that way but before I got there I ran a yellow light and he stopped on red. Whew!
Most deflating thing that ever happened was at a bar in Austin. Had some drunk lesbian start mocking me to my face. Her friends kept apologizing but she wouldn't stop. I just got up and left. Never went back to that bar.