It was over FB chat. He made a post that I saw as a good opportunity. So I told him. I've known him for 20+ years. All he said was "Well you always did like the idea of wearing a kilt so it's not a surprise." I asked him to not tell anyone and to not think I'm a freak. He said it's safe with him and if I need anything he's there to talk. So I guess it went well maybe.
Gwendolyn