It's not an attack on Jaye. They are honest questions to Jaye in an attempt to help Jaye not be so afraid to the point where it will impact her decisions to go out and enjoy herself. When she does go out, is she really treated badly, worse than before. Is she refused service. Do people behave in a threatening manner towards her.
And do you honestly believe that I support these bills?
My only explanation is that you are perhaps allowing yourself to be engulfed by fears too. I suppose this is a natural reaction. I gave into these fears too when I first joined this forum. I would read a thread about CDers fantasizing being with men, and I'd tell myself that ALL CDers were secretly gay including my SO. But when my beliefs began to have a negative impact on my relationship, I realized that I needed to become more objective.
So when CDers and TGs' fears begin to impact them negatively, such as Jaye perhaps making the decision to no longer go out, or you refusing to visit friends in the US, don't you think it's time to try to look at the situation more objectively?
An analogy is the people in Paris or Belgium, or even in NYC after terrorist attacks. The prevailing attitude was, they would not give into their fears and stay home. They refused to allow the terrorists to win.