Has any one really met a Trannie chaser?

[summerbunny]

I hear there out there objectifying transgenders.
Are they just wanna be CD's,TG but are afraid?

What are your stories on running into a real life one.
Do you discuss transformation secrets and are transition secrets with them?

[Jodi]

Oh yes. Went to Chicago BeAll several years ago. There were a number of them there. One in particular, kept pestering me wanting to give me a foot rub. Finally he took no for an answer and moved on to someone else. I used to go to girls night out at the "Queen" in Warren, OH. There were a number of them there every month.

Basically, I think they are harmless as long as you keep them in public. I wouldn't want to go to a hotel room with one of them.

jodi

[Kate Simmons]

I've met a number of them in the past. From what I've seen they seem to be a bit confused for the most part, not really sure of what they want.

[Tracii G]

Oh yes I have had to deal with them and most do seem confused.
Some are very sweet and just want to be with you on a friend level and I have no problem with that.
I have had a few get pushy and want to have a more sexual encounter but be firm and say no and they usually back down.
Basically they are harmless but you have to be able weed out the bad ones and trust me thats not that hard.

[Lorileah]

Tracii, there are good ones?

They are either wolves or bunnies. The bunnies run away when the light comes on or you get close. The wolves are scary to say the least and are usually into it for a sexual conquest. I dated one of those three summers back. He kept hanging on waiting for me to give in. Then one evening I was to meet him and caught him with another TG in a booth. She gave in and on her way out made it a point that she had stolen him. A week later she was crying on my shoulder because he had dumped her after the liaison (in a parked car in a Starbucks parking lot). He, on the other hand was chasing me again. I told him "hey the girls around here talk to each other, you should probably find a new pond to fish in." He almost immediately went and hit on one of my best friends....got the same response from her as I had given...and went down in flames (appropriate, he was once a fighter pilot)

[Pat]

I don't know that it's particularly respectful to lump them all into a class and make blanket judgements. I've met a number of them. They're human beings like everyone else -- some good, some bad. I can't say if they're confused, I can only say that often their desires and expectations don't line up with mine very well, but again that doesn't make them substantively different than anyone else. If you find some whose particular wants line up with your own, it's nice. As nice as meeting anyone else you're compatible with.

[sara.rafaela]

I have met a few. Most are harmless. Some are looking for sex. Only once was I really bothered. The worst occasion, was when I met a young Australian man at a TG bar. There were a mix of girls, some working, some casual dressers like me. We were talking about travel, when all of a sudden he said he wanted me naked in bed. He said it in a real mumbling kind of way, as if he were talking into a ventriloquist dummy. Weird. I said that I do not do that, directed him to a few of the ladies that were working, and suggested he introduce himself. I excused myself and walked off; but he would not leave me alone. I was borderline going to ask the bartender for help. She would have dealt with him. Then he walked a way for a second and I left.

[Lorileah]

Sara, that's funny, I had two like that. Both gorgeous men (truthfully I don't remember ever being hit on by ugly guys) and both said basically the same thing "I want to spend the night with you and then never see you again." At least they were honest

[DeeArel]

Over the years I have met many and they run the full spectrum from straight out I want to have sex to perfect gentlemen. My last six encounters have been the latter. I make it clear to all that I am not easy and that we will be going our separate ways at the end of the evening. The gentlemen have been great and I hope to cross paths with them the next time I am in their town. 3 of the gentlemen hinted for more but all were content to enjoy my company.

[sara.rafaela]

Yes Lorileah, the Austalian guy was attractive, he had a Tom Cruise thing going, but his weirdness made him a bit more Anthony Perkins. I met another, in San Francisco. At the bar, we talked, I was alone, we talked. He was nice. I said I was going to a new club, the Cat Club in San Francisco, and asked to come along. OK. When we got there it was clear I was a semi regular and had a bunch of friends to talk to. He beat a hasty retreat. Another, it was Latin Night. The guy was attractive, early 40´s look like a tech or pharmaceutical salesman type. He took me salsa dancing on the dance floor. I am an avid dancer; but had never danced in the following role. I was having a great time. I stopped and told him that I was into GGs and dancing was all I could do. He said goodbye immediately.

[Meghan4now]

Yes, he was disappointed when I told him that I wasn't into it for sex, and not interested in going to a hotel. He was really hitting on another girl on her first night out. Poor thing, she was already trying to build confidence and working on her presentation skills.

There were probably a couple of others, but I just thought they were curious, not REALLY hitting on me...much. of course I'm oblivious and kind of older, so not much of a catch or even aware.

[I Am Paula]

Sadly, many. Because it was safe, I spent a lot of time in gay bars (okay, I. Was gay too). Suburban guys with wedding ring tans hit on all the girls. All of them were interested in meeting a chick with a d*ck. (their words, not mine)
For the most part, they struck out. Us girls were out for a social time, not sex.

[nikkiwindsor]

I've met all sorts of men interested in me when I'm dressed up. What's the specific definition of a trannie chaser?

[Heather Anne]

I attended my first Sounthern Comfort Conference in Atlanta. I was in the elevator heading to my room when a guy got on the elevator. He then said I looked nice and wanted to come to my room with me. I said no. I did not get off the elevator on my floor. I went back down to the lobby went and got something to drink and then went to my room. This only happened to me once.

[Sometimes Steffi]

One group of girls I went out with were trans and actually looking for men, Us girls met at a restaurant for dinner at 7, and the men came about 9. Most of them were scaredy cats, or rabbits as someone called them

I never got hit on. I don't know if I wasn't cute enough, or if I had mastered the icy stare.

But there was one GG there who came with her CD hubby. The men were relentless on her, and a few times I subtly stepped in to protect her.

There was one time when I was at Keystone that I was hit on by a tranny chaser. I had gone to the Casino with 4 CD friends, but all my wing women had walked off, either to go to the bathroom or place a bet on the ponies. That's when this guy came up to me and tried making conversation. I didn't think he was dangerous, but I did get a little concerned. Then one of my wing women came back and rescued me.

There is also one thing to consider. I don't think we should denigrate "tranny chasers". Many of them may be weird, but some of them may honestly be attracted to TG girls. When you think of it, that's no more weird than a guy who likes to go out wearing a dress.

[docrobbysherry]

Yeah, it happens if u get out enuff. And, dress hot and sport a sexy figure like I do. Even with my face like Micks!

They've all been young enuff to be my grandsons!

I've only had one frightening experience. All alone at the far end of a parking building at 1:30 AM. The guy was built like a linebacker! He wanted a BJ. I think most of the ones that approached me do?

Mostly I get hit on inside crowded clubs. So, I'm never worried. If they get TOO clingy I pull out my mask and put it on. That usually puts them off. Except for the last guy who started making out with it!

[Georgette_USA]

Yes there are definitely chasers. There are male chasers for most any odd thing out there. I get the ones that want a "mommy" type because of my age, some in their 20s. Also the ones looking for PLUS size woman. For some of the Trans having a Trannie chaser is not all that bad as they want them also.

I will get some in gay clubs, but usually back off when I tell them I DO NOT have what they are looking for.

I don't consider myself as such, but I am also interested in Trans and CD, as I do little chasing.

[pamela7]

A tranny chasing trannies I've met. As this was only the one I cannot generalise, just seemed like he ignored simple signals like "i'm married" and so on; behaving like many a jerk-male towards females.

I have one related funny story I only heard last week. I met a bf of a gf of mine last autumn (i was dressed), and since he has split from her and is chasing trannies! So that counts as a meeting one before they knew they were one, i think ;-)

[Vickie_CDTV]

From the ones I have talked to, many are also closet dressers that are in denial about it, and dating a trans person is the next best thing. I don't get the logic, but there you go.

[SheriM]

I was in a mall and followed by a male. It took a while but I was able to loose him by going into a store and out their outside door.

[Phoebe Reece]

Way back in the early 1980's, one night a CD friend of mine and I went dressed to a club in downtown Atlanta that had drag shows and dancing. The drag performers hung out in the audience and danced a bit between their times performing. My friend and I had a good time talking with some of the girls and enjoying some drinks with them. Other than the performers, I don't remember there being any other crossdressers there. Anyway, at some point a couple of guys wanted to buy my friend and I some drinks. We politely turned them down. Then they wanted to know where we lived, etc. We decided it was time to leave. When we got outside we noticed those two guys also coming out. My friend and I quickly got in my car and drove off. The other two guys were just as quick getting in their vehicle and were soon following us. This situation was getting pretty scary. Fortunately, I knew my way around town. I made some quick turns and got into a residential area where I ultimately lost them. Somehow I don't think that pair of "tranny chasers" had honorable intentions.

[atlflygirl]

I have, because I want them. I'm a gay man, and the idea of being a man's plaything really turns me on. I meet most online because I never go out due to my sharp manteeth, which give me a crooked smile as a woman. However, the chasers are weird. They don't want to be seen in public with me, aren't interested in dating and just want to have sex. The coldness and entitlement is above and beyond anything I've seen with gay men, although if straight guys want you, they pursue you honestly. None of these drawbacks are really a dealbreaker, but I would love for guys other than those that belong on Duck Dynasty to chase me!

[summerbunny]

tranny chaser chasers
are trannie chaser chasers



gay men that that are attracted to men who don't want a gay man but are attracted to trannie/trannys ,so they dress in drag/CD to attract those unknowing men .

[Mayo]

A tranny chaser is a fetishist, who's only interested in someone because they are transgender. It's not really much different that fetishizing someone because of their ethnicity, or breast size, or hair colour. They're not attracted to a person, but rather a trait or a collection of traits, and if you don't have those - in this case, a female appearance plus a penis - they're not interested in you.

[nikkiwindsor]

This is all terribly confusing to me. Given that there is a huge range in defining transgender individuals it seems to me that the trann(ie/y) chaser spectrum would be large as well. Stereotyping takes away from describing the diversity inherent to both communities.