Don't Ask Don't Tell and I Don't Want To See It
......... how do they actually feel about it? "He's a pervert and that's just not right?" or, "OK, I'll just pretend this doesn't exist?" or even, "You're not allowed in the woman's world!" possibly, "I can't cope with another female in the relationship. I guess you expect me to be a lesbian now, right?" Or even, "This just goes against what I've been taught as the righteous side of life."
How do y'all think about how they think?