Hi Jennifer...agreed. I really felt that getting married to a gorgeous woman, who was so feminine and dressed exactly like I wanted to dress myself, and to whom I was seriously attracted, would "cure" me. I stupidly thought that I could be satisfied living vicariously through her--she was so amazingly sexy and beautiful, and loved the clothes, heels, hose, etc., that I thought there was enough femininity for the two of us. Lots of fun shopping trips for her, with me guiding her selections...for 11 years it was enough. Then it wasn't.