Reine, I have been complimented on a few occasions and while I think the compliment was genuine, it has a vibe of, "You look lovey (for a dude in a dress)." Now, I do not think for a minute, that another woman thinks I am a genetic woman so my bubble is not bursting. A compliment is good to receive. I AM a dude in a dress but they are still saying I look nice which includes how I am presenting, outfit, accessories, etc. In other words, I am not Ru Paul and I am not presenting unflatteringly.
Keep on giving compliments if they are genuine.