Feeling philosophical on my day off work...
As someone growing up without a father, I had practically no male role model to look up to, I have wondered if this has led to my desire to CD.
Over the last 30 years, society has arguably given more effort on the development of girls more than on boys. Boys are expected to cope, they are expected to "man up" when things go wrong.
Whilst the media's use of skinny (beach ready) women are frowned upon, not much is said about the use of super fit men with 6 packs. Women are standing up against unrealistic female images, saying men apparently like women with curves; but apparently women also like a well toned male body with 6 pack. The message is that it's ok to have a less than perfect female body. So boys, if you can't achieve the perfect male body, how about trying for an acceptable female body instead.
The work place is still much biased towards male, therefore boys don't need encouragement, or role models plastered everywhere, there are apparently enough opportunities to not warrant the need for any publicity or encouragement for boys.
Girls on the other hand, are encouraged to aim high, told they can be whatever they want to be, that it's ok to be different and break the mould, break the glass ceiling. Girls can wear boyfriend shirts, boyfriend jeans, boy-shorts, boxers, trouser suits etc that are all designed for them and they look great in them. Feminism has grown up, women used to want to be as strong as men, or do the same job as men; now they just want to be whatever they want, and become whoever they want.
Yes I know society still doesn't always accept women who break the mould either, and nasty things are said and done to them, so I'm not saying they don't need the help or encouragement. But boys do as well.
I wonder, if a boy is already CD/TG inclined, if all these girl-power type messages are unconsciously feeding their desires?