Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
So would you want to also "be" that woman, if she is the type of woman that does not appeal or that people tend to ignore because there is no wow factor, or no factor at all, not even "not bad".
First, Hi Reine! Hope all is well with you and yours!

What I really want is to be the 51 year old woman I see in my minds-eye and in the mirror at least a couple of times a week but never enough! I want to be the teenage girl I dreamt about in high school. I want to be the girl that got to line up with the other girls in elementary school.

But I don't know if this answers the question. There are women and situations that I think trigger my desire to be who I should have been more than others. Yes, a beautiful, rich, elegantly dressed "Real Housewife of" type is a trigger for me. So is a mom playing with her children in the park. Women in groups, enjoying each others' company are as well.

Sigh,
Debby