I've pretty much quit posting here due to the negative tone the forum has taken of late, but I felt compelled to share this story.
I drive a truck on a local route, scheduled pickups and deliveries, and had about an hour to kill today. After some thrift shopping I stopped at Walmart. I have been looking for a specific bra, color, type, size and padding, which I felt might be like finding that needle in a haystack. Today (in full male mode) I browsed the bras (as you may know, they have quite a few aisles of them) and BINGO! I found exactly what I was looking for. I then took the bra and went to the fitting room (which I have done quite often and done so often in this specific store). When I asked the attendant if I could use the fitting room (I want to make sure the straps fit my shoulder well), she simply scowled at me and said no. I said "really? and she repeated "no".
I turned and walked away and considered my purchase. Because it was the exact bra I had been looking for and I can always return it if it doesn't fit right, I made the purchase. The female cashier was pleasant to me and I left.
I had to make my next pickup, so I needed to leave but was not happy with my treatment. As I was driving, I called the store and spoke with the assistant manager. I explained that I was denied use of the fitting room and why (explaining I was TG and frequently shopped there and tried things on). She could not have been more apologetic, saying it didn't matter what I wanted to try on, the treatment I received was unacceptable. She assured me that this would be dealt with sternly and continued to apologize, indicating that she was so sorry I had to go through that. I assured her that while I was not happy, she provided the response I was hoping for.
I am not one to raise a ruckus or to militantly stand up for a cause, but right is right. I may be disagreed with here, but we will only change people's minds one at a time and today, I feel like I did that.
I had to tell someone my story.