Hi There
It all started on Friday talking to our therapist.
I am in the progress of changing to a transgender friendly GP and starting HRT.
This hasn't been easy for my wife and she has been very emotional about it.
Our therapist is concern that we have become quite isolated and that my wife has nobody to discuss this with.
Part of the isolation is that we are afraid we will loss family and friends over this so we have subconsciously push a lot of people away.(according to our therapist)
So on Sunday we had our best friends of 20 years come over for lunch , all was find until later in the day when my mate brought up that they where concerned about our drinking and that
we don't seem to catch up like we use to.
MMMM I thought do I explain whats going on (I had a few wines on board by now).
So I said that I am seeing a therapist and that I was transgendered!
To say they were shocked would be an understatement ,at first they thought I was joking and then realised I was serious .
So here's the thing my mates wife took my wife aside and told her she is a very black and white person about this sort of thing and that my wife has a choice she can leave me.
My wife answered her by saying its not as easy as that when you love this person.
I didn't go into details due to the shock factor but said to my friends wife that my wife has nobody to talk to about this and she feels alone and helpless.
Now I sit here on the computer thinking did I do the right thing is she the right person for my wife to talk to???
We haven't heard from them since ,I am hoping they maybe just in shock over this but I have a feeling we have lost our first set of friends over this.
Kiwi