As a gender fluid male, I have always thought that I was a boy/girl. It took me a lifetime to understand my gender differences and the gender fluid cycle. I am a DES son, a person with female hormones in a male body. I have been sitting on the gender fluid fence for some time. Most of my life in fact. I have aged some and I try like heck to keep in shape. I have a woman’s problem and that is Rosacia on my nose and forehead. It took me awhile to figure that out and how to handle it.
I met another DES son and he had graves disease, a woman's disease. So, in a way we are based as woman, but we were raised as men. Wow, i must say that what life gives you can really be a burden on our journey through life.
Truly what are we? I now for a fact that we are spirits in a human body. The body given to us by our parents. I don't know if I pass as a male anymore as I am slowly turning into a woman as I am aging. My male look is funky at best and I am a feminine male. As a girl I feel at home and happy. But as a male, I feel that I am okay but my male side has accomplished an awful lot but it feels indifferent and has a narrow view of the world. Alas though my lady side is so new that she hasn't gone though life itself to know what it is really like but is learning.
But sitting here today it hit me I am now a girl/boy. I am still on the fence of gender fluid but that changed and I don't know if that is truly what I want. As a male in a relationship. this kind of rattled me and wow it is so different.
I know for a fact that many have not walked in our shoes and may have trouble understanding what I am saying.
For all of the gender fluid here where do you currently sit on that fence and identify as.