My thoughts about this started when my wife was going through some Face Book entries and began to get annoyed about some people we know in our village, they hardly find the time to speak and yet they are being called the best parents and friends people have known. She queried if they were talking about the same people !
For some reason I wondered if she thought if I might have a FB account for my CDing, to answer that I would say definitely not, I don't trust them !
Then I continued to think if she asked me if I was on line on a forum or whatever would I admit I was or would I lie ?
I know some encourage partners to come and have a look or even have their own account, but in my case I can't talk to her about this part of my life and would prefer her not to see some of the things I have said. I know that's not a good situation maybe even a dangerous one but selfish or not it's got me through a difficult period. So do I admit being on a forum on that basis or do I lie ?
I will add that I admitted to both my daughter and son that I visit a CDing forum so maybe this question is going to be irrelevant eventually anyway if they make a slip and tell her, I would guess they've forgotten .