I don't have face book and don't want to have it, it seems like a waste of time to me and way too many getting to know other peoples business.
In answer to question as to if I would lie about being a member of this forum or any other forum the answer would be no. I don't hide what I do from my wife she has known for a lot of years and is on and off supportive of me and my dressing. It's always hard to tell with her what she is thinking and if I ask I don't always get an answer but I do know this that if she asked me about the forum and what I do I would tell her.