Early last week I got a text message from my 36 yr old daughter asking if she could come home.She and the man she is living with had an argument that was bad enough she grabbed some things and left.Her mother and I are no longer together and I was her only option.I like living alone,I can be Karen whenever the mood strikes.I don't know what will happen if this should turn out to be a long term deal.She thinks she could live here as long as she wants.I have the room, but it will affect my dressing time.My only option may be to tell her about Karen.When I dress I go all out ,wig, makeup ,nails, the whole nine yards.I don't want to worry about being caught.When my ex left I know for a fact she told my sister-in-law about my dressing,who told my old neighbor who asked before I moved if it were true.I made a joke about it and I didn't really care what she thought.If my sister-in-law knew I think maybe my son and daughter may have heard something, maybe even from their mother.When we split they were in their mid 20s.So my daughter may have a clue about dad as Karen.When my ex and I were married my dressing wasn't as involved as it is now,I rarely wore makeup or a wig,we only played in the bedroom.Now sex isn't a part of dressing,I feel complete when dressed.I can't give it up until she either moves back or moves out.The thought of telling is both exciting and scary.Don't now if I should wait or just do it.Wish I knew what she knows it would make it so much easier.Thanks for listening. Karen