Even though it's pretty much a DADT thing these days something neat happened yesterday. Some mornings at 5 am before I take off for work I'll wear a skirt and heels while out having a smoke. She knows about it, actually has seen me at that ungodly hour if she has an early day that I didn't know about and surprises me. She knows I try to do the Lee thing when she is not around or in bed so she doesn't have to see it.
I generally wrap the heels in the skirt and put them on a kitchen chair when I'm done, so they are easy access for the next time. They are out of sight unless you bend over and look under the table. It is an unspoken rule to make sure they are gone if someones coming around, just in case. Yesterday a friend was dropping in for a few minutes, so I remembered to grab them but they were already gone. Didn't think much of it and went upstairs to get out of my work clothes and there they where on the floor in the bedroom. Had a good night, she went to bed, I stayed outside to watch the ball game. Later that night I went to grab them to put them in Lee's closet and they were gone. Hummmmm, This morning I go downstairs and low and behold she must have put them back on the chair when I was outside last night.
I know she dislikes the cross-dressing these days but it sure warms the heart knowing that she realizes this is a part of me. Taking weekends away with the girls so I can dress-up or acting like I'm standing before her in jeans instead of a skirt and heels if she happens apon me. Not my ideal situation when it comes to this part of my life but I'll take it.
Man I love that girl.