I would like to ask all of you for help. So about me I've been cd'ing for a long time like most here. Within the last three years my wife has found out about my crossdressing. As it stands now she is in a DADT mode which I'm fine with. She always questions me if I want to be a woman or if I'm gay. For me personally I don't want to be anything other than a crossdresser. I'm not gay. Our intimate side is few and far between, but mostly on my side. I like sex but it just isn't enjoyable with her. I hate to say that because it sounds so mean and because of that I have never told her that. Sex isn't a dying need for me, and I would never go out and cheat on her because she is the love of my life. With that said, and with the intimacy lacking, really has her red flags up about my sexuality. How can I reassure her that she is the only love that I want. I really do believe that she would be a little more open minded about the whole crossdressing thing if she believes in her heart that she is my only one. How does one bring that conversation a float without hurting her too much?
