OK there have been a lot of threads lately about how wives place ultimatums or demands on their husbands.
The old If I had known I wouldn't have married you line we hear so much.
I realize you should tell your spouse to be that you CD so it doesn't become a problem later on.
I know some guys don't get hit by the "bug" or realize what they are until after they are married.
But what I don't get is why don't you guys stand up for yourselves?
You have wants and needs too but silently suffer and never assert yourselves almost like your wife has some kind force field over you.
Personally if my wife said if I had known I would have never married you I would be hurt even devastated that she didn't care about me as a viable human being and cast aside all the good times and intimate moments you have had.
To me it just shows she really doesn't consider your feelings at all and only thinks of herself.