This might be a little silly, but folks have been noting a drop in posts, so I thought I'd pose a question. Of course it encourages me to be called ma'am and she when I am out as myself. For years I hid in the closet, but as I become comfortable in my own skin, hoping to go full time, I sometimes forget what I look like. Lack of self-consciousness is a good thing, I believe; but have you ever spaced out a little and been startled for a sec when a waiter addressed you as ma'am?
Lallie