A friend posted a Facebook question about orientation among trans people. I was surprised how many people answered asexual, or asexual (not by choice). It made me think of my close friends, members of my social/support group, and other trans people I know.
Regardless of age, or stage of transition, we seem to not be having a whole lotta sex.
I was in a relationship for a short while, and in my case (pre op) I found sex a bit confusing. As a male(?) I found sex VERY confusing. Some I know have changed preference, which is supposed to be impossible, and don't quite know how to deal with that. Alot of us have a very hard time finding a partner.
Who's having sex, and who's not? Would you if you found a compatible partner? Are you still attracted to the same sex as you were previously? Is your ideal date staying home and watching T.V.? Is it important to you, now, or in the future?
Not a survey, I just want to see how some other people feel about this. Please don't make this another who's gay, and who's not thread.