My SO is very accepting and actually likes my girl side, but for some reason dressing in front of her is awkward for both of us. It's not a big deal at all and we don't overthink or beat ourselves up over it. A fun excersize we've discovered is to lie in bed and fantasize together. She dresses me and we do things as girl friends. It's a lot of fun for us, plus I ALWAYS look gorgeous and sexy! We're thinking maybe this Halloween I'll get dressed up and we'll actually go out (for the first time). Until then we're enjoying our little fantasy together.
Hugs,
Katie