I haven't posted on here in forever. I hope this is the right forum. If it's not, I apologize. If it's taken down or moved, I would greatly appreciate PM from the mod.
My life has, in short, become my own personal hell. I'm often anxious or sad for no reason or for the tiniest thing. I've become a complete recluse outside of work. I've become massively depressed about either being female in a male body or being male with an overwhelming female side trying to break out. I've tried repressing the female side, which makes me despondent to the point of borderline suicidal. I've tried letting it out in small doses, but it made me hate myself when I crash back into "male mode". I tried writing in a diary to cope or find answers and I felt terrible. I did gender therapy every other week for 6 months, but it didn't feel like I was getting anywhere except broke paying a lot for someone to say "Well, what do you think?". I used to have a bunch of hobbies that helped me ignore what I call "The Problem", but all of my hobbies became new frustrations. I'm not really coping well with things in general just surviving and trying to make it through.
For a long time I was reluctant to even admit that I was suffering Gender Dysphoria or I was just in denial about it, but I think it's pretty clear that's what I'm struggling with.
Honestly? I'm pretty desperate for any advice right now.