hello,
ive become very good friends with a mom at a trans support group i attend, she has a daughter now and she has stressed with how quickly she moved along and the amount of surgery, which ones i am not certain of as she does not offer and i do not pry.
the hardest part of this for her is no other family or friends have been told about her new "self" and mom has been told not to reveal, she tries to use the correct gender markers and still trips over them from time to time but having to use the male markers when conversing with friends and family make the transition more awkward for mom, especially when folks ask about her son, has to be a real mental hopscotch for moms brain,
now i know we all want to come out our way and our time, ive done this with my wife and as she wished no others were told so now i am half in the closet and she is now in with me, so i understand.....it has however been a lengthy time and reveal dates have been set and pushed back.
mom does not know i am here asking but since i have this resource i wanted to seek some genuine feedback and help her understand since she is what i consider a good friend, she always comes up to me after meetings and talks with me and i like that.....
any advise would be appreciated....