Love can keep a relationship somewhat together, but RESPECT,, is very important, too. I am62, still single, and i fine women lose respect for me, when i reveal that i sometimes CD. They want a "real man", not an effeminate one, and cannot fathom why i would CD. Only a lesbian seemed to accept me, and she was not looking for a man, though. Respcit is number one with men, in what they want. When the respect is gone, even love is not that great.