I have been a part of this forum for two years and read many stories of those who had their SO find out about them. I hid it but it was not a complete surprise to her in light of a neighbor in the past putting the word out that he saw me in makeup. She would always ask me why, I would not let her have my have my computer password, I told her there is things in my files, I did not want her to see because she would not understand. I have pictures of me in full dress, and most of all this web page book marked/
She came home yesterday early. I did not have time to even get my nail polish off. I ran around the house picking up evidence and when, I got back into the living room she was looking in shock at a video of me.
I told a half lie of leaving it there for her. But truth prevailed. I was asked was, I homosexual and was, I having sex with other men. We were already having problems. I had confronted her just this week about a drug arrest she held secret from me. Now she throws this in my face. But it was not a complete surprise and, I feel a little relieved. I have so many dresses and shoes my private closet is over flowing.
I was eventually going to tell her but a past lie stood in the way. When the word got out about me in makeup, I lied and had to keep on doing it. My advice is. If ever confronted. Go ahead and get it out in the open because it will come back to get you later.
She want to make this work but dealing with this other part of me and a wife is somewhere, I rather not go. I do not know how to handle it. I know she will always wonder what, I am doing when she.s not around. Am I having sex with men, That's just the beginning. One thing for sure. I am tired of hiding it and, I will not hid it like, I have in the past. What, I will do is dress up one day and surprise her.