Hi friends, again here I am asking for advice. I have posted here before and the responces I received have been very well written and very imformative.
A bit of history, I have health issues and some months ago I was hospitalized with heart and breathing issues, I spent 3 months in hospital, needed a pacemaker and I came away a very changed person. I now am mostly a stay at home person, I have oxygen when breathing gets difficult. but enough of this.
Earlier this year I was in the hospital for 4 days due to pnemonia, my resistance is much lower these days. During my stay in hospital I finally got to thinking, what would happen if I were to die suddenly ( I know we will all die sooner or later)? Obviously my family would have to settle my affairs. I have related to you that I do have a 16 year old son who knows about my dressing and I know I was outed to my family by my ex during our messy divorce. BUT......I have never shared my lifestyle with my sisters, I was always very careful to keep my private life hidden from the family. I do have a will, so my possesions and finances can be dealt with. Has anyone thought of what will happen when they pass on, I realize I will not be here to care but I do care what happens to my reputation, how the family views me and how they will treat my son when I am gone (my son is a CD) They will have to deal with getting rid of my feminine wardobe, and everything transgendered that I have. As I write this I cringe at what they will think of me. So can anyone give me some advice so I can resolve this inner turmoil, I really do not know if I have the strength to meet with my sisters and reveal my innermost secrets.
Jenni