I know it's been said before so I'll keep it short. Crossdressers should not even feel they need to come out looking at the past.
Pink used to be for boys and blue was for girls. It wasn't even until marketing companies in the 80's that started selling pink for girls and blue for boys.
Boys used to wear dresses until they were 6.We want to wear a dress who cares. It's just clothes. Men wear skirts all around the world. It's the media that says what we should wear. In a perfect world there should be no men's and women's clothes. It should just be one big section. (Actually I can see this happening some point in near future).
Sorry to rant it's just stupid marketing in the media that gets in peoples minds of what things ought to be.