Hi everyone,
I know some will think I did this on purpose or it was subconsciously intentional but trust me it wasn't.
I WAS closeted. Not anymore.
I had a bag with some of my things in it in my car the other day and unbeknownst to me a bra had fallen out.
My wife and I were literally on our way out the door to meet friends and begin a weeks vacation when she found it. We had exactly three minutes to discuss it before we got to our friends house, then dinner, flight, etc with no chance to talk for a full 20 hours. Not the best way to begin vacation.
This was yesterday and she has had to act like there is nothing wrong around our friends while she's torn up inside.
The good news is I don't think she will want a divorce and even used the word compromise during one discussion. She's a wonderful woman and I don't want to lose her so I well do everything I can towards that end.
I'm on the rollercoaster now and I feel hugely guilty for the burden I have put on her. She needs support now and had talked about how she had no one too talk to because she said she can't confide in anyone because "I wouldn't want to do that to you".
I'll post more later, but I'm hopeful.
Beth