We live in an over 55 community. My wives daughter and husband and our grandson is living with us now....due to circumstances beyond their control....long story. It was ....and still is... the right thing to do. Fact is that I was the one who suggested it to my wife and we then followed through with the invitation. Don't get me wrong I love these kids and they are helping us out regularly with things, but prior to this I could lounge around in a night gown or whatever I wanted to wear. I've been out I think twice since they moved in in Feb or March. It seems so trivial that I feel held back from being myself when I think of the greater good. I keep busy with the business and projects and family time but I do miss me. I don't like to sleep in a night gown so keeping it in the bedroom is not fulfilling at all but can be a little help....very little. Not really looking for help or suggestions...more of a venting to our community....a community that understands and frankly.....misery loves company.
Thanks for reading and ya'll stay safe out there with all the crazies!
Joyce