There's a guy at my work, he's what I would describe as suspect, always joking around, sitting on other guys knees, singing songs like shania twains "man I feel like a woman" he asks others as well as me what size feet you have and mentions stilettos, last night he asked what I would call myself if I was a woman, he asked others too, I'm pretty confident that it's just his humour but can't help wondering if I'm "suspect"???