I am seeking out some honest answers here, many of you are in DADT situations with your SO's. At the stage of telling i would guess that your SO's had a lot of questions, fears etc. that you no doubt answered truthfully. The DADT sets in... fast forward some time and things change with regards to how you feel about your CD/TS/whatever side. So perhaps your urges to dress get stronger or perhaps the idea of boobs starts to sound interesting or any of 1000 changes that are so common in our world. What do you do?
1. Update your SO even though its DADT?
2. Let sleeping dogs lie?
3. Other
Lets hear what some of you did when the situation arose.