I told my wife and it isn't going well.

[Jenniferathome]

I showed her a picture of me in a wig, with my breastforms in, with makeup on. ...

WAY TOO MUCH TOO SOON!

Your mistakes have been made but do not compound them. Therapy is a great idea. Invite her to join you. SHe'll learn that cross dressing is not the bomb she thinks it is