My wife found out by glancing at my phone and seeing some shoes I was looking at on a website. She is now very angry about the deceit and the fact I hid it from her.
She does not think it is normal to wear shoes that are aimed at women. I have told her I will stop as we are married with a young son and I don't see any other option unless I want to lose her. She has found my stash before I was married and I had to purge these and has found online history before and I promised to stop.
Think because I lied twice and carried on she is soooo angry.
Not sure what to do any advice would be appreciated.