Wife's biggest concern: that CDing will take me over and ruin our life. Background: I have been an occasional crossdresser throughout life, no interest in transitioning or living as a woman, only been out a few times over the last few years, only recently came out to wife. She has done some "reading" and is terrified by the tales of men going out of control with the new freedom they feel once out to their SO. Question: has this happened to you or anyone you know?