My wife of 10 years left me a few months back. She was always (verbally, at least) 100% in favor of me exploring my desires to crossdress. And yet... looking back, I can see a clear correlation between her lessening interest in our marriage, and my levels of feminine expression. And you know what? I'd understand that. When we got married, she had no idea of this side of me. And if she decided that, because of my... genderfluidity, or whatever, I was no longer what she wanted for a life partner, I'd understand that. I'd be hurt, but I'd understand. I have my own standards for who I'd want to be with. It's just, she never said that it was a problem. She listed other problems (and certainly some of them were legit. Our marriage might have fallen apart without this.). But she's never stated even the slightest discomfort with my crossdressing. But the discomfort was there. I could see it. And I wish we could talk about it.
I don't know, I guess I'm just posting because I suspect other people out there have been through similar shit.