Over the last couple days I have been driving across a few states. I have been wearing high heels with hose and a black ladies top and guy jeans. I have been traveling very leisurely so I have made many stops from gas stations to dress shops to an outlet center including wearing my 9 west pumps to a 9 west store (SA in her 40s that was amazing) to a couple sexy lingerie stores. The worst reaction I got was the SA at a shoe Dept seemed embarrassed that I was trying on and buying ladies shoes. She said she had never sold heels to a man. The SA at 9 west waited on me intently having me try on several pair ( bought 2) the SA at the Haynes outlet commented that she loved the look. Both SA at the lingerie stores commented and discussed it and let me give them my shoe fashion show. I have an appointment Friday for a corset My point in all of this is that you should just relax and do what you are comfortable with. People really don't care