I was recalling a conversation to my wife about another CDer saying that despite being separated the wife no longer wanted any further assistance with small jobs around her home because her nails and hairstyle were no longer acceptable .
On more than one occasion my wife has critised me for allowing my nails to become too long and manicured, she again made this comment during the current conversation, I replied that they don't stay that way for long because the get broken from doing jobs around the home, she looked me straight in the eye and said , " Good , I hope you break them all !"
I did see red over the way this reply was made but held back from telling her that it's my body and what right did she have to impose controls like this over it. I will admit these one sided comments aren't limited just to CDers, so why is it women can comment as harshly as they like to control men in some way and yet not many of us would pass comment to our wives/partners or even women in general.
Nails may appear to be insignificant in the whole CDing situation but they add to our overall appearance and it does feel good to have nicely shaped and polished nails when going out dressed. I guess it's another token of showing a female trait they dislike , personally I'm becoming a little tired of being hurt most of the time by the jibes and digs , if she really wants to change the situation just come out and say it !