I get on here often to read the posts but don't always log in, but felt I needed to share this story, so here goes....
So, last night I was enjoying a few drinks, probably a few more than I should have however.
I was texting a friend of mine who has no idea that I dress. He is very conservative in his beliefs and we were discussing a mutual hobby of ours and also that he needed some advice for a small home improvement project and was planning on possibly calling me today so that I could take a look at it.
A few minutes later, I was also talking and texting a man that I met online about a week ago, who seems very nice and is interested in dating me. We had exchanged pictures previously. I decided to text him another picture of me, a selfie and a very tasteful picture with me in one of my favorite dresses, completely done up with makeup, wig , ect.
And by now, you might have guessed.....I sent the picture, NOT to the man Ive been chatting with, BUT to my friend instead!!
The picture was taken at a distance and there was no text from me to go with the picture,( luckily) just the picture itself.
Realizing my mistake, I took his number, and added it to two others as a group text. The other numbers were two women I am out to. I quickly called them and told them my situation so they would go along with it, then I texted, " Who is this? Emily?" , referring to the picture I sent by mistake and pretending the picture was sent by one of the women I'm out to, to me, and I was commenting back As far as his number being in the group text, I was just going to pretend that his number was in there by mistake.
No response was received by him and I received no call from him today either. Ive been trying to figure out if he knew it was me in the picture. I even texted the picture to myself to see if it was obivious .From the distance it was taken, I might have been completely passable, but not sure. I guess it was a lame attempt at a cover up and not sure it worked, but I am a nervous wreck and have been all day.
Any advice is appreciated, however I will never drink and text again without deleting previous texts at least!
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