There have been several interesting threads recently on the subject of whether or not to open up to your SO at the start of a relationship, but i didn't want to post on these as my situation doesn't exactly fit into the debate and i didn't want to sidetrack the issue.
My position is that i have been married for over 15 years, but CDing was not and never had been a part of my life when i got married. I began crossdressing about 2 years ago & finally told my wife about it earlier this year. When i first posted here about coming-out to my wife, one person commented that it was quite uncommon for someone to begin CDing in middle age. They thought that mostly the desire starts at a much earlier age.
I am interested to know if many others here started CDing in "mid-life" and how did this affect any relationship they were already in.
Nic