My wife informed me today that I left her last night,,,, ok it was a dream she had, I said jokingly "who for?" she said "You dont want to know" I replied "why? was she ugly?", she laughed and said "No, you left me to go live your life as a woman" Ouch! I've made it quite clear that I have no interest in transitioning but this is obviously something that worries her subconsciously.
We have a loving relationship and she supports my need to dress very well. How do I put her mind at ease? I've been at home for some time lately, signed off my work, I know she has no idea how often I think about dressing and I havent been dressing that much lately due to our son living with us, so where this has come from I don't know, any ideas what would make her think such a thing?