So, the last couple of weeks have been touchy here. Wife (love her but, not accepting) and I have mini chats about my dressing. Nothing truly resolved but, we're keeping the "air clear". She's bought holiday clothes for herself twice recently. Usually she asks what I think about her purchases. I've given short replies like "looks okay or nice" which isn't the norm. Usually I give more detailed answers, just felt awkward doing that. I didn't want her to feel like I was critiquing based on what I wear.
Turns out that route was upsetting! I explained why I was hesitant to give my normal critique. I was told she values my input and I often know what looks best on her body. Then I get "we have very different tastes in clothing. I never expect you to compare our clothing styles, especially when you look at my purchases." While I am happy we can talk about things without being upset, like we use to get, I'm still walking egg shells around her.
Jayne