I thought I would ask you gals about some of your experiences as you entered retirement. I know many of you have made comments about how it went with the dressing once you retired. Now if you wife is accepting, the situation might have gone to Rainbows and Unicorns. However, if you are in a DADT, it might be different.
I guess I am in a DADT. Actually DADT might be optimistic. I would say my wife is somewhat antagonistic towards me and my dressing. Seems she has relented on the panty wearing as my drawer is full, but she doesn't like it. She gives me some flack about other things she finds around from time to time. So I just sort of have to do it on the sly. We have had some conversions, and we just butt heads. I wonder how it might be in retirement, especially if she retires about the same time. Even "normal" (and I hated to say it that way) couples seem to have issues with suddenly seeing so much of each other.
Your stories and suggestions would be helpful. I don't see myself giving up much of anything with regard to dressing and in fact the pick fog gets stronger each day, and in general, I am caring less and less about you knows or sees me. After retirement, my need to protect my income stream will be great diminished, at least relative to the dressing aspects. Inflation, taxes, medical, etc is another story of course.
Traci