I have been dressing on and off for all of my life. My wife is ok with it just as long as she is not around. She has seen me and I have dressed in front of her, and she is ok. But I have a 12 year old girl. I just don't know when or how to tell her. I know that I have to. She is always tring on my heels and even wearing them sometimes. She has bigger feet than my wife. I think that she may have an idea but I am not sure. What should I do. Please help.