I have often mentioned that if you treat a Sales Assistant pleasantly and politely then they will be only too happy to respond in kind.
Today I was in a nearby Dillard's Dept. store buying perfume and I was interested in finding a new makeup foundation for myself. My cosmetics are all from the local Walgreen's and I have never sought advice. Today I was passing a stand in the cosmetics department and a SA asked if she could help. I told her I was looking for a foundation that better suited my skin and we had a lovely time together as she showed me the options and made recommendations. Another female SA came over to chat as I sat in the chair and had the foundation applied. I mentioned that I was a transvestite and the SA did not blink and eye. I was not full dressed but wearing a blouse and necklace with slim jeans and a pair of black loafers. So, not trying to pass particularly.
After being with her I went to the adjacent lingerie department and she saw me there came over and took me to the racks with sales prices and we looked through together and selected a nightdress for me. She was so helpful and pleasant. I know she gets commission on what she sells so there is incentive to get me to buy but she was so helpful. She asked if I also needed to shop for dresses etc., and took my cell number so she can alert me to any good promotions or sales.
So, for all of you members who are still nervous about shopping for yourself just follow the often repeated advice given by others here and when approach the SA be polite and pleasant and ask them about how their day is going and whether business is good etc., and they will be pleasant and helpful with you.